Dinner party gifts

By Ed Biado@Manila Standard Today
Dinner parties are among the best parties there are. They’re intimate and a great host will make sure everyone is properly fed and entertained. As a guest, you have to do your part and thank the host for the cordial invitation—not just by saying the words or writing a note—but by bringing them a gift. Flowers are good; bespoke coasters are, too; but premium food items are better because they blend in with the theme of the evening (which is feasting) and they signify a high level of taste and thoughtfulness. We’ve got some ideas for you.

1. Wine is the safest and most convenient item to bring to dinner parties. Red, white, champagne—it doesn’t really matter. The only thing to consider is the price of the wine. Is it a casual dinner with friends? Bottles that cost less than a thousand pesos will do. For more formal affairs, a Moet is always impressive.

2. Chocolates, especially minted ones for a nice after-dinner treat, are a great gift to the host/hostess. Truffles, Belgian and premium dark are also good choices. As long as they’re packaged beautifully, they will definitely be appreciated. It is best to bring enough for all the guests as your host may likely want to pass them around over coffee.

3. Gourmet cheese is a very versatile gift idea. You can opt to bring one big slab of Monterey Jack or a gift box containing different cheeses in any combination. Some of the more common cheeses to choose from include cheddar (but not the supermarket kind), Muenster, double Gloucester, feta and Gouda. And maybe throw in a jar of mustard, while you’re at it.

4. High-grade jam and fruit preserves make for a considerate and almost personalized token if you know your host’s favorite flavor. You can make them yourself, if you have the time. Otherwise, go to a good gourmet place and get a big jar or three small jars of premium old-fashioned jam.

5. Olive oil and balsamic vinegar is a great combo because almost everybody uses them. In fact, it’s one of the most recommended gift sets to give at any occasion. Again, gourmet shops are the best places to purchase them because that’s where you can find quality products that are not always available at your local grocery.

6. Herbs in a pot add a nice countryside feel to any kitchen. Gifting your host with one will almost guarantee you an invitation to their next dinner party and they’ll be excited to tell you that the basil in your dish came from the pot you gave them. Other herbs you can gift include rosemary, thyme, sage and mint.

7. Olives are quite an unusual gift idea in the Philippines, but they don’t have to be. Seasoned olives are a great appetizer and martinis wouldn’t be complete without gourmet olives. So, you actually have two kinds of olive preparations to choose from. But since they’re really inexpensive, buy them both. Or, you can pair a jar of martini olives with a jar of maraschino cherries if your host loves cocktail hour.

8. Pickled vegetables, by themselves, are great to nibble on. They’re even better as a side dish. Therefore, pickled veggies are a fantastic gift idea. Here, we have achara. But you can select from a variety of pickle preparations ranging from the familiar—cucumbers, gherkins and onions—to the exotic—cauliflower (a Romanian recipe), eggplant (Russia) and kimchi.

9. Dried fruit, like raisins, prunes and dates, are popular and can be enjoyed a variety of ways. There are many brands of mixed dried fruit that include those, and also apples, apricot, berries, peaches and mangoes. Although the local dried mangoes aren’t the ideal dinner party offering, a good brand of gourmet dried fruit is an excellent option.

10. Premium nuts are just like dried fruit. You can purchase a single nut kind like pistachio or walnut or a big package of snacking mix. Better yet, get the nuts and the dried fruit. Remember to bring a lot because your host may want to serve them as a trail mix for cocktails.